Do you choose to have the life you live?
A hard question with hard answers
18 Sep, 2008 |Lori Smythe
Are you where you are in life because of the choices you’ve made through out your journey? Some believe so. While it is easy, and sometimes undeniably true, to point to circumstances that have caused certain things in our life to be the way they are, there are some who still insist that no matter what happens in our life, something inside of us created this reality.
Take, for example, the story of Joan. Obviously this is not her real name. Joan is unhappy. Her job is stressing her out. Her friendships are unsatisfying and she feels ignored. She is single and for the life of her, can’t seem to meet a nice man. She has become angry, bitter, and frustrated that those people and that job simply aren’t living up to her expectations. Could it be that Joan has created his bleak life herself? Joan could choose to change jobs, but it would be hard. She could make new friends and perhaps meet a nice guy, but she would have to put out some effort. Her negativity, in fact, could be what is keeping them away. Joan is where she is right now because of her choices.